Comparison is the Thief of Confidence
There’s a quiet thief that often sneaks into our lives unnoticed. It doesn’t steal material possessions, but something far more valuable—our confidence . Its name? Comparison. In a world driven by highlight reels, curated feeds, and constant access to what everyone else is doing, it’s easier than ever to measure our worth against someone else’s chapter 20 when we’re only on chapter 3. We see someone’s success and question our path. We admire another’s body, relationship, career, or lifestyle and wonder, “Why not me?” But here’s the thing: comparison only tells part of the story—and often, it's the version that's been filtered, edited, and polished. The Dangerous Spiral Once we start comparing, it’s hard to stop. We begin doubting our abilities, undervaluing our progress, and questioning our journey. It chips away at our self-esteem. Instead of being inspired by others, we feel less than . Instead of celebrating what we’ve done, we downplay our own growth. And that’s how co...